► Questioner: “Can you talk about giving our power away?”
► Channeler: Divina Solmanos
► Received Date: October 23rd
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Greetings, great starseeds of Earth – dear ground crew! I am Mira, of the Pleiadian High Council and we are with you in love as you pass through this pocket of energies and feel the very human wish to feel good again. We understand this, precious ones. You can welcome comfort and companionship while keeping your own connection with Prime Creator present within the experience. Please notice what happens when your relief depends on another person changing their expression. You ask how they are, hear tension in their voice, and suddenly your attention turns toward getting them into a different mood. You may spend the next hour explaining, entertaining, reassuring, or agreeing, all while waiting for the sign that you can finally relax. Your care for them is sincere, and your own uneasiness has quietly entered the same exchange. You have given their next reaction a great deal of authority over your inner life. We see many sensitive starseeds doing this, especially when you are tired and hoping that one more conversation will restore the peace you miss. You can begin reclaiming that authority by noticing the particular response you are waiting to receive. Perhaps you want a smile, an apology, a quick reply, or an assurance that everything between you is fine. Let yourself recognize the wish with tenderness. Ask for clarity, speak honestly about your needs, and allow the other person time to answer, while also attending to the feelings already present within you. Your relationship with your heart is available during the waiting, so feel your feet, let your breathing follow its natural pace, and give your attention to what is actually happening around you. You may still feel disappointed, and you can make a thoughtful choice from there. You have the freedom to let another person have an unfinished emotional process while you continue living your own day. You are each held within the love of Prime Creator. You can sit beside someone who is unsettled and remember that your next breath, your next word, and your next act of care are yours to choose. Your power returns through that simple participation in your own experience, and we are very glad to help you recognize the places where you can practice it today.
You can notice the responsibility you have given to the places you visit and the things you bring into your life. You may enter a gathering expecting its atmosphere to lift you, open a message expecting certainty, or buy something beautiful hoping that the feeling it brings will last through a week. You deserve pleasure, and we love seeing you enjoy the beauty available on Earth. Your enjoyment has more freedom when you allow each experience to offer what it actually contains. A friend can share an affectionate hour. A walk can give you fresh air and a change of surroundings. A spiritual teaching can offer a question that deepens your understanding. Receive each gift while remaining attentive to the part of you that continues making choices afterward. When you arrive already expecting an experience to remove every uncomfortable feeling, you may overlook the good that is present and leave disappointed with something that offered care. Notice the task you have assigned before you enter. You might discover that you have asked a loved one to make the future feel certain, or expected a room full of people to keep loneliness from returning. Once you recognize the expectation, you can speak more plainly about what you are seeking and give yourself a wider range of support. Your heart may welcome company, your body may welcome rest, and your mind may need a practical question answered, so attend to these needs separately, with patience for each. Please give yourself permission to enjoy a good moment while allowing its feeling to change naturally. Let yourself leave a place with gratitude and remain connected to yourself on the journey home, receiving its encouragement and later deciding which part belongs in your daily life. We see your inner authority growing stronger when you stop asking one experience to settle every concern at once. You begin recognizing the next honest choice available to you, even in an ordinary afternoon when your mood is quieter than you hoped. You might prepare a meal, complete a small responsibility, or ask directly for the companionship you would enjoy. Your life receives care through these specific choices. Your Higher Self can guide you in the simple circumstances already before you, and you can listen while your feelings continue to change. You are allowed to meet this hour as it is and discover what love can express through you here.
Before you enter each interaction, dear ones, give yourself a moment to arrive in your own presence, right where you are. You can do this before answering the telephone, opening a meeting, preparing food, or stepping into a conversation with someone you love. Let your attention return to your body, notice the feeling already with you, and remember your willingness to let Prime Creator’s love guide your participation. You can ask inwardly what would allow honesty, care, and respect for everyone involved. Then listen to the person and the circumstances you actually meet. We emphasize this for the ground crew as many of you enter an exchange while still responding inwardly to the previous one. You may bring an earlier criticism into a new conversation and hear a question as another accusation. You may carry yesterday’s disappointment into today’s invitation and expect someone to let you down before they have spoken. Your pause gives you a chance to recognize what you are bringing. When you hurry straight into activity, your familiar ego habits are likely to choose the meaning of the encounter before your deeper awareness has had a chance to participate. You can interrupt that habit through a few ordinary seconds of attention. Your presence gives the will of Prime Creator room to express through the way you hear, the question you ask, and the care you take with your reply. You may discover that a situation needs clear information, a patient silence, or a simple practical action. Your guidance can express through any of these. Keep this practice small enough to include in everyday life, returning to your heart while your hand rests on a door handle or while the telephone is ringing. Remember that the person before you has a life you understand only in part, and that your own experience deserves the same care you intend to offer. Your presence includes both of you. If you notice midway through an exchange that you have lost that awareness, you can pause there and continue with greater attention. You have that freedom at every stage. Your spiritual practice gains depth through these ordinary returns, as you bring the love you feel in stillness into the activity of your day. We cherish the willingness you show when you enter a familiar situation with fresh attention and allow a more loving response to take shape through your own conscious participation.
When someone brings a strong emotion into your company, did you know that you can notice their feeling and STILL remain attentive to your own? You may hear sadness in their voice or see anger in their face, and your body may respond immediately. Please give that first response a little room before deciding what it means. Recognize tension in your chest and ask what you know about the situation. You have observed an expression. You may also have formed an interpretation, such as the thought that they are disappointed with you or expect you to solve something. You can check that interpretation through a gentle question. Many sensitive people move so quickly from noticing to assuming that they begin carrying a responsibility the other person has never asked them to carry. We see this among starseeds who sincerely wish to serve. You sense discomfort and start changing your own position before you understand the need. Your sensitivity can serve you more clearly when you allow observation, understanding, and response to have their own time. Someone else’s emotion, as an instruction about who you must be or what you must feel, has absolutely and precisely nothing to do with you. Your responsibility concerns the way you participate, including the effect of your conduct and the choices available to you now. Their inner experience remains theirs to feel, express, and understand. You can honor that freedom with great tenderness. Within the unity of creation, each being has a distinct experience, and each being’s consent matters. Let the person describe their feeling in their own words, and ask whether they want company, practical assistance, or time to think. Hear the answer before deciding how to help, giving their own understanding a place beside what you sense. Your awareness of unity grows more mature as you respect these differences within shared existence. Let your empathy include curiosity, beloved ones. You may discover that a quiet friend is concentrating, that a sharp reply followed a difficult morning, or that someone’s tears carry relief. You gain understanding by meeting the person directly. Your heart can remain open through that discovery, and your body can receive the reassurance that you are allowed to take your time. You have room to feel, room to ask, and room to choose. We love seeing the ground crew use sensitivity with this patience, giving each person space to reveal the truth of their own experience.
We understand that this can be especially challenging with someone whose distress has felt like it has shaped the atmosphere around you. You know their expressions so well that you begin adjusting before they ask for anything. You may lower your voice, abandon a plan, offer an explanation, or agree with a complaint in the hope that everyone will feel easier. You may have learned these habits while trying to keep connection with people who were struggling themselves. You can meet that history compassionately and explore a different response in the present. Before you offer reassurance, ask yourself what the other person has actually requested and what you can freely give. You may have the time to listen for a while. You may be able to help with a task. You may need to explain that you can continue the conversation later. Your honest answer gives the relationship something clear to work with. When you offer attention, let the person finish a thought before deciding how their feelings should change. Acknowledge that the experience sounds painful and ask what part feels hardest today, then allow a silence in which they find their own words. Your calm attention gives them company while leaving their process in their own care. We ask you to notice the urge to keep helping until their expression softens. You may have offered exactly what you can offer, and they may still feel upset. Let that possibility have room. Your kindness can remain complete as an offering even when the person needs more time. Leave the exchange respectfully, keep an agreement you have made, and return to the activity awaiting you. When a situation calls for assistance beyond what you can provide, help the person seek appropriate support, with respect for what they choose. Your care gains depth when it respects real needs and real limits. From our perspective, you serve the collective through this honest participation. You show that two people can share a difficult hour while retaining freedom within it. You allow affection to exist alongside an unresolved feeling. You let someone receive support without requiring a particular response in return. Please feel how much gentleness this brings to both of you. You can love the person who is struggling and also protect the time, attention, and energy through which you live your own earthly life. Your steadiness gives the relationship room to breathe and develop at a human pace.
Starseeds, you can take responsibility for something you have said while allowing another person their own response to your repair. Perhaps you interrupted, made an unfair assumption, or spoke sharply when you were tired. You can name the action plainly, listen to its effect, and offer a sincere apology. Explain what you intend to do differently and give that intention a place in your conduct. Your part is clear enough to act upon, while the other person may need time to trust the change, and you can respect their pace. Please notice when your apology turns into a request for immediate reassurance. You may keep explaining until they say that everything is fine, leaving them with the additional task of settling your discomfort. You can let your apology stand and allow your future behavior to carry the care you have expressed. When you hear a complaint, listen thoughtfully and ask for specifics if you are unsure what happened. Your discernment helps you recognize the difference between an action you can repair and an expectation you can discuss. Someone may feel disappointed when you keep a reasonable commitment to yourself. Acknowledge their disappointment and explain the choice you are making, allowing your love to remain present as you agree on another time, offer what is possible, or accept that your preferences differ. We see your sovereignty in the way you hold both truth and tenderness within an encounter. You are your own island in the simple sense that your feelings require your conscious care, even as you live in relationship with all creation. As you reach toward another person, retain your responsibility for the choices made within you and allow them the same dignity. If an exchange grows threatening or repeatedly harmful, your care can include distance, protection, and help from people you trust. Your heart can wish someone well while your actions establish the conditions under which contact is possible. We regard your safety and your freedom as part of the sacred life entrusted to you. Please bring your spiritual understanding into the practical details of how you spend your time and who has access to you. You can speak with warmth, make a clear decision, and continue honoring an agreement with yourself while another person feels disappointed. Your compassion has room for everyone involved, including the dear being who is listening to us now, learning through each encounter with love.
And yes, you have practiced many emotional responses while watching the stories your world creates. You see a character receive news, then the camera turns toward another face, and that face helps tell you what the news is supposed to mean. You hear music gather beneath the scene, watch others react, and feel your own response taking shape. You can enjoy the artistry and also notice how much guidance your attention receives. You can understand a subtle form of predictive programming through this repeated rehearsal of what a person is expected to feel next. You may learn that loyalty looks like shared anger, that love requires visible distress, or that silence means a relationship is ending. When you encounter a similar moment in your own life, a familiar response may arrive before you have understood the circumstances. Examine these expectations gently, remembering that your imagination has participated in many stories and you can now bring awareness to the responses you have practiced. You might pause after a charged scene and notice which feeling arose, which detail invited it, and what you actually think about the situation. Distinguish the character’s experience from the response the scene encouraged in you, and ask whether another reaction would also make sense. A person receiving difficult news might ask a practical question, grow quiet, seek company, or need time alone. Your human experience has room for all of these. Your life allows responses beyond any scripted scene. Give real people the same range, letting someone care in a manner different from the one you expected to see and allowing your own concern to express through attentive action even when your face remains calm. You can also enjoy a story deeply and return afterward to the room where you are sitting, the life you are living, and the choices actually before you. Your attention benefits from recognizing when a portrayed event has ended. After turning off the screen, give your body a few moments to settle before entering another interaction, and notice whether a dramatic mood has followed you into a conversation that has an entirely different purpose. Through this awareness, you take a more conscious part in what you carry forward. Your imagination remains a beautiful capacity, dear ones, and you can guide its participation with the same love you bring to your other gifts. You can choose which expectations deserve a place in your relationships today.
You may recognize the same habit when a message arrives with different words than you expected, when your personal model of the occurrence is different to what shows up. Your physical body responds to the meaning you have supplied, and that response can make the imagined situation feel convincing. Please bring your awareness to the first detail you actually know. You have received a brief message. Read the words carefully, consider the context, and ask for clarification if something matters, allowing the unanswered part time while you attend to something else. We see how much energy the ground crew spends responding to conversations taking place inside the mind. You may prepare ten replies to a criticism that has never been spoken, then enter the real exchange already tired and guarded. Once you recognize this preparation, return your attention to the person when they are actually available. Your willingness to ask allows them to participate in the understanding you form. You can also notice how quickly groups establish an expected emotional response. A friend describes an upsetting event, and everyone begins matching the anger already in the room. You may feel pressure to intensify your own reaction so that your loyalty is clear. You can express care by listening closely, asking what happened, and considering what would help. Your agreement with every interpretation can remain a matter of honest reflection. Let your affection speak plainly, so that warmth carries your concern while your judgment has time to develop. Tell the person that you care about what they experienced and would like to understand it fully, then remain interested when another detail complicates the first account. Your heart has the capacity to stay engaged through that complexity. You may feel a different emotion from the people around you, and your difference can offer another way of approaching the situation. Share it gently, with respect for what they are living through. Your steadiness allows more possibilities into the exchange. You give the group permission to think, to ask, and to respond with greater care. We ask you to honor this freedom within yourself, for your presence has particular value when you allow it to express what you honestly perceive in the moment before you.
Your emotional mastery develops through the care you give a feeling while deciding how to act and your feelings help you recognize what matters, what hurts, and what may need attention. Your awareness allows you to consider that information alongside the circumstances you can verify. During a difficult energetic period, you may feel eager to restore a happy state as quickly as possible. We invite you to give equal attention to the way you accompany yourself through the state already present. Meet a heavy feeling with patience, ask what care your body needs, and let a trusted person know how you are doing, receiving support while continuing to make your own choices. When we speak of your vibration and the frequency you anchor, we include the love through which you meet your experience. You bring that love into a tearful afternoon, carry it into a conversation where your voice trembles, and express it through the decision to rest before replying to a difficult message. Your anchoring gains steadiness as your conduct reflects your heart through changing moods. Please notice the difference between a feeling’s intensity and the authority you give it. You may feel something strongly and still need more information about its meaning. You may experience a quiet understanding that deserves thoughtful attention. You can listen to both with discernment. Your emotional life has many shades, and you can allow them without making each one a prediction about your future. When you feel fear, check what protection is actually needed; when you feel excitement, consider the practical details of a choice; when you feel affection, ask whether an agreement respects everyone involved. We see maturity in your willingness to remain present for these distinctions. You are learning to trust yourself as someone who can respond with care across a wide range of experiences. Please let that trust grow through ordinary practice. You can finish one honest conversation, take one restorative pause, or revise one hurried decision. Your heart receives evidence through what you actually do, especially during difficult exchanges. Recognize the change afterward and let yourself appreciate it. We delight in these moments with you, dear ones, as you discover how much freedom remains available within the feelings passing through your day.
You encounter another invitation to give your power away when a confident voice offers a complete opinion before you have had time to form your own. You may listen to a podcast, watch a discussion, or read a stream of responses and feel relief as someone explains where you should stand. Your mind enjoys a clear account, especially when you are tired of uncertainty. Appreciate another person’s reasoning and give yourself time to examine it. Please notice what you have actually received from the exchange. You may have learned a fact, heard an interpretation, or felt reassured by the speaker’s confidence. You can consider each separately, verifying a stated fact, comparing an interpretation with other possibilities, and recognizing that your reassurance tells you something about your experience of listening. You can allow that pleasant feeling while continuing to ask thoughtful questions. Many of you hear an opinion repeatedly until its familiarity feels like your own understanding. You may recognize the words easily and still find it difficult to explain how the conclusion was reached. Give yourself permission to return to the underlying question. Ask what evidence supports the view, what remains uncertain, and whose experience has been left out. Look beyond a short clip to the fuller conversation, allowing yourself to leave a subject undecided while you learn. Your attention is precious, and every discussion asking for a verdict draws upon it. We invite the ground crew to practice listening with enough inner space to hear the difference between understanding a claim and joining a group around it. You may enjoy a speaker’s warmth and question one of their conclusions. You may find an unfamiliar person’s evidence worth examining. You may agree with part of an argument and hold a different view on the rest. Your discernment can remain that specific. We see your individual consciousness participating more fully when you allow these distinctions. You bring your own attention to the shared search for truth. You can benefit from knowledge others have gathered and still take responsibility for what you repeat. Before passing a claim onward, pause long enough to know what confidence you can honestly place in it, given what you know. Your care with a single statement can spare many people unnecessary confusion. You serve humanity through this quiet precision, allowing your voice to carry the understanding you have actually developed and the questions you are still exploring.
We understand that you feel that you can experience the social cost of an opinion most clearly when you consider changing it. You may even have repeated a view among friends, defended it in public, or used it to recognize the people who seem closest to you. As new information arrives, you may feel concern about what revision would mean for those relationships. Let learning remain possible after you have spoken, explaining that your understanding has changed and describing the evidence or experience that helped you reconsider. You can take responsibility for a claim you shared too quickly and offer a correction with the same care you brought to sharing it. Your companions then have an opportunity to consider the subject again. You can also notice when disagreement itself has grown into a habit. You may hear the popular view and immediately reach for its opposite, hoping to protect your independence. Give yourself enough time to examine both. Your freedom lives in your capacity to consider what is true, what is uncertain, and what consequences a choice may bring. Your sincere examination may lead you to the same conclusion as many other people or to a different one, and you can remain willing to learn in either case. We value the quality of attention you bring to the question. You can develop that attention by allowing a private interval between hearing a view and announcing your response. You might write down what you presently think, the reasons for it, and what information would lead you to reconsider. Then notice whether your reasons describe the subject itself or the people whose approval you hope to retain. Your heart can help you meet that discovery honestly. You may feel attached to being recognized as awake, compassionate, informed, or spiritually advanced. You can let those wishes enter your awareness while you continue examining the actual matter. Your relationship with truth deserves room beyond the image you present. We ask the starseeds to practice this openly enough that others can feel permission to do the same. Ask a sincere question in a group that expects quick agreement, acknowledge a limit in your knowledge, and appreciate someone who corrects a factual error with care. Through these small acts, you help your communities sustain curiosity. You allow shared understanding to develop through participation, and you give each person a chance to bring their own experience into a conversation that can continue growing.
We suggest that you practice holding a considered view while keeping your heart open to a person who sees the matter differently. Please loosen strong opinions when you notice them directing your entire response to another human being. You may hear one statement and begin deciding how much patience, warmth, or respect that person deserves. You may feel evaluated in the same way, as though every conversation requires you to display the correct position before you can relax. Your cultures have given you many opportunities to practice this sorting of one another. You can help humanity discover another way by remaining interested in the person as you examine the opinion. Ask how they arrived at it, what experience matters to them, and what concern they hope their position will address, then consider carefully whether the claim has support and what effects the proposed action would have. Your discernment retains its purpose within love. Speak clearly about consequences and choose actions that protect life, while allowing the person before you the dignity of being more than the sentence you disagreed with. From our experience within the Pleiadian High Council, cooperation deepens when individual perceptions can contribute to a shared purpose. You may recognize this when several people agree that someone needs care while holding different ideas about how to provide it. Compare what is possible, listen to the person receiving the care, and choose a next step together. Your unity expresses through the regard you bring to the process. Your communities on Earth can practice this through decisions that include differing voices and shared responsibility. You can carry different histories and still participate wholeheartedly. Prime Creator’s love is available to every person in that exchange, through every change in their understanding. You can remember this when an opinion begins to feel like a measure of someone’s entire spiritual nature. You can evaluate an idea on its merits and meet the life expressing it with respect. We ask you to give this particular attention in the chapter ahead. Humanity has practiced reacting to opinions with great speed. You can introduce enough patience for an actual encounter to occur. Let someone finish, ask one honest question, and give your answer with care. Your steadiness helps preserve the possibility of cooperation. You are anchoring a frequency through which people can think individually, speak truthfully, and continue recognizing the sacred life they share with one another on Earth.
You can discover how unconditional your love is by noticing what happens to your warmth when someone disagrees with you. There are some that REALLY need to hear that! You may continue speaking politely while withdrawing your interest, your gentleness, or your willingness to see their good. You may wait for them to change their view before allowing affection to flow freely again. Please meet this recognition honestly, dear ones. You have learned many ways of making acceptance depend on agreement, and you can now choose how you wish to relate. Prime Creator’s love is unconditional. Is yours? You can let the question reach an ordinary conversation with a friend, a relative, or someone whose beliefs surprise you. You can ask whether your love still includes their humanity while you consider what they have said. When agreement is the price of affection, you are practicing the familiar human exchange of approval for compliance. Your capacity for real love reaches further. Wish the person well, recognize their divine origin, and speak with respect while maintaining a clear position of your own. Welcome them as a person and discuss the conduct appropriate to the space you share. Your welcome can include clear agreements about listening, safety, and how decisions will be made. Uphold those agreements with the same dignity for everyone. The sun shines on people whose views differ widely, and you can allow that simple observation to remind you how generously life is given. Prime Creator offers love to every being. You participate in that generosity when you stop using your warmth to persuade someone into agreement. Share your understanding freely and leave their freedom intact. We know this asks much of you while incarnated in a human body within this density. You can feel the sting of disagreement, remember earlier rejection, and want to protect the part of you that feels exposed. We hold great tenderness for that experience. Attend to the hurt within yourself before deciding how to continue the exchange, taking time, seeking support, and returning when you are ready. You can also end a conversation respectfully when further discussion would serve little purpose. Your heart can remain available to love through a clear ending. We trust the ground crew’s capacity to practice this with honesty, even through discomfort. You have opportunities every day to let affection retain its freedom, and each opportunity allows Prime Creator’s love a more conscious expression through the life you are living.
Every few hours, especially on days filled with human interaction, give yourself a brief return to your heart center. Choose a natural pause after a meeting, before a meal, or when you finish an exchange that required much of your attention. Sit or stand comfortably, notice the support beneath you, and let your breathing remain easy. You may rest a hand over your heart if that feels welcome. Give yourself time to recognize the emotion already present and the conversation still occupying your mind. You can ask whose response you are waiting for and what you are hoping that response will permit you to feel. You may discover that you have spent an hour waiting inwardly for approval from someone who has already gone home. Acknowledge the wish, bring your attention back to the life in front of you, and ask whether something practical remains to be done. Perhaps you owe a clear answer, need to correct a misunderstanding, or would benefit from arranging another conversation. Choose that action and give it an appropriate time, then recognize when the exchange is complete for now and let your attention return to your surroundings. We encourage you to include your body in this return. You may need water, food, fresh air, or a few quiet minutes. You can meet an ordinary need while remembering your connection with Prime Creator. Your spiritual life has room for this simple care, including the needs you overlook. You can then choose one quality you wish to bring into the next activity, such as patience, honesty, or warmth, and give it expression through a specific act. You might read a message carefully before replying, make a clear request, or listen through someone’s full explanation. Your intention receives a place in the world through that act. Please allow the practice to fit the circumstances of your day. Take a longer pause when time is available and a brief moment when responsibilities require your attention, returning after you have forgotten and appreciating your willingness each time you remember. We suggest this rhythm over the coming weeks and months as a gentle way of keeping your own experience within your awareness. You give much attention to others, dear ones. Let your heart receive some of that same devotion, so that the presence you offer in your next encounter includes an honest relationship with the person you are while offering it.
Beloved Ground Crew, we see that you are ready to bring this care into the next ordinary encounter of your life. You may meet someone whose mood is unsettled, hear an opinion you question, or feel the familiar wish for another person to reassure you. You can recognize what is happening and remain with yourself long enough to choose your participation. Ask what is needed, listen to the answer, and offer what you can give freely. Receive kindness with gratitude and let the other person continue having their own day. Think carefully before repeating a claim, and keep affection alive while a question remains open between you. We see the ground crew’s strength in these human moments. You are giving love an expression that another person can experience directly, through your attention, your honesty, and your respect for their freedom. You may notice the effect quietly, as a conversation has more room, a difficult feeling receives acknowledgment, and a person can explain what they meant. You can leave an exchange with a clearer understanding of what belongs to your care. Your contribution takes shape through these particular acts, and we appreciate the sincerity you bring to them. Please remain gentle with yourself as you practice. You may catch a familiar habit after it has already influenced your words. Acknowledge it, repair what needs attention, and return to the present exchange. When you discover that your view was incomplete, allow the new understanding to guide your next choice; when you feel tired, give your body rest before continuing. We are close to you in love through this learning. Over the coming weeks and months, let the gift of your presence reach the people you actually meet. Let your love include those who have yet to understand your path, and let your discernment guide the practical form that contact takes. You can remain rooted in your relationship with Prime Creator while participating fully in earthly life. You have your own attention to offer, your own choices to make, and your own heart through which love can express. We trust you deeply, beloved ones. We honor the courage required to live this way in a world that so often asks you to react. Pause, listen, and choose with tenderness, carrying that freedom into the next conversation and allowing it to deepen through practice. I am Mira, loving you and supporting your return to the power within your own heart.
